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Old 02-20-07, 09:39 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Re: My SO likes another girl...very long
I know exactly where you're coming from and I'm so sorry! I'm sure you know that Chris and I are going through something almost identical except my hubby acted on his feelings. When it all started he said he didn't know why he did it but I do. Our relationship had stalled and I know I pushed him away simply because I had grown very complacent ya know? So someone at his job obviously flirted with him, he found her attractive and he did what he did more than once actually. I've since left and now he's trying desperately to fix what he did because he now realizes what he does want is me. He claims he never liked her in the sense he wanted to be with her, it was just the attraction and excitement that was lacking at home.

So my advice for you is if he's telling you that he doesn't feel the same anymore you're going to have to be strong and carry on just you, Jakob and your family. Believe me it's not going to be easy but you can do it. Maybe in time he'll realize what an ass he is and he'll try to fix what he's done wrong as well. PM me if you want to talk some more.
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