Thread: My SO likes another girl...very long
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Old 02-20-07, 02:08 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Re: My SO likes another girl...very long
First of all, let me say that I am sorry to hear of your troubles. But as I am sure you know by now, I like to give my two cents. So I shall give:

Personally, from my POV... after there has been dishonesty in any relationship, from that point on, there is NO relationship. I don't even believe in counseling, because I honestly believe that there will always be trust issues, that no counseling will ever fix. When fights occur, things that happened in the past that cause the distrust, will always be brought up, etc.

He lied to you about something, and hid his feelings, and I would say he has done this for a while. This isn't something that just comes up within a couple of days or even weeks.

He was dishonest with you. Now you can choose, if he so chooses as well, to work it out... that is on you. But from MY perspective... I wouldn't take back a man that lies. Even if it was once. There is just no trust left, and there never will be. It will always haunt you and the other person.
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