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Aimie · 02-27-07, 11:58 PM

some of you may remember my drama of... to have another baby now or to wait to have another baby for a few years or no more babies. well, this week (having been here with the boys while dh is away for work) i have decided and dh is totally or board with this by the way (big suprise) that i am done.

no more kids for me. unless god has another plan and before we break down and get dh the big V ( i won't go on bcp due to complications the last time and condoms suck ) but we had no babies due to oops' in 8 years so i think we got the pull out thing down. lol. being here with the boys i have realized how perfectly chaotic it is and fullfilled i feel with 2 healthy and happy boys ( YES, they are a pita especially billy lately. lol), but they are my pitas... yes, a girl would have been great but... granddaughters are even better and hey, i can spoil them and not have to deal with the concequences. he he.

so aimie and josh have 2 beautiful little boys and are a complete family unit. it does seem a little sad to me how i wasn't around for what is ending up as our last baby as much as i would have wanted but i hope being home now makes up for the year i had to support the family. as i am typing this i am crying not because i am sad to be done, but that i am satisfied with the decision that i made the right choice for my family. having a 3rd would have been a totally selfish move and had we gone through with it i fear i may have felt regret with either outcome... boy (well, it figures we should have just stopped at two...) and girl ( yeah... mommy got her wish who is her fave now...) not that i know i would feel that way but i fear that i could and that isn't fair to any children. i love billy and matty and they are so sweet and loving and funny and rowdy... i cant imagine throwing the balance we have in our lives now completely off.

if you made it through all of that BLESS YOU it feels nice to let it out and finally not be thinking what if... maybe in 2 years i always said kids done by 30 and i stuck with it. now.... just explaining this to our parents... that will be interesting...

did anyone out there in yada land have to have this discussion or should we just avoid untill the subject comes up?

02-27-07, 11:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
Aimie has a pain in the neck.... literally a PAIN in her neck!!! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Near Spokane Posts: 15,740 Thanks: 597 Thanked 489 Times in 409 Posts My Mood:	A funny thing happened this week.... some of you may remember my drama of... to have another baby now or to wait to have another baby for a few years or no more babies. well, this week (having been here with the boys while dh is away for work) i have decided and dh is totally or board with this by the way (big suprise) that i am done. no more kids for me. unless god has another plan and before we break down and get dh the big V ( i won't go on bcp due to complications the last time and condoms suck ) but we had no babies due to oops' in 8 years so i think we got the pull out thing down. lol. being here with the boys i have realized how perfectly chaotic it is and fullfilled i feel with 2 healthy and happy boys ( YES, they are a pita especially billy lately. lol), but they are my pitas... yes, a girl would have been great but... granddaughters are even better and hey, i can spoil them and not have to deal with the concequences. he he. so aimie and josh have 2 beautiful little boys and are a complete family unit. it does seem a little sad to me how i wasn't around for what is ending up as our last baby as much as i would have wanted but i hope being home now makes up for the year i had to support the family. as i am typing this i am crying not because i am sad to be done, but that i am satisfied with the decision that i made the right choice for my family. having a 3rd would have been a totally selfish move and had we gone through with it i fear i may have felt regret with either outcome... boy (well, it figures we should have just stopped at two...) and girl ( yeah... mommy got her wish who is her fave now...) not that i know i would feel that way but i fear that i could and that isn't fair to any children. i love billy and matty and they are so sweet and loving and funny and rowdy... i cant imagine throwing the balance we have in our lives now completely off. if you made it through all of that BLESS YOU it feels nice to let it out and finally not be thinking what if... maybe in 2 years i always said kids done by 30 and i stuck with it. now.... just explaining this to our parents... that will be interesting... did anyone out there in yada land have to have this discussion or should we just avoid untill the subject comes up? __________________ ticker gone.... we're staying in washington!!!