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Originally Posted by gateachermom
Aimie, you are living my life, I swear! We were finished after 2 boys too b/c we really thought our family was complete. DH still hasn't gotten a vasectomy (I really want him too) and I am not on bc. We use a condom b/c I am hoping that it will convince him to get it done. Putting it in God's hands is the best thing for you to do. He knows what the future holds, and who knows, you might end up with a little suprise package one day like we did. If not, then you can rest assured that the Lord did what was best for your family.
Now, if your hubby can just get mine on board for the big V!
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Sara I could I could written your post exactly! We are doing all of the same things and I really would like for DH to get the big V but he wont do it. When people ask if we are going to have another, I say "We dont plan on having anymore children. We are happy with our 2 boys." I say that because although DH and I dont plan on anymore, you never know what God has planned for you. And why is it when you have two boys everyone expects you to try for a girl??? I am extremely happy having my boys! (sorry for the little rant there! lol)
All of our family knows we are done and I am not shy about letting them know if they ask. My sil has said to me, "well you didnt get your tubes tied so you never know, you might change your mind." I told her, "No I wont, I am done. I have my hands very full with my two boys." Besides now I have a niece to spoil, so who needs another when I can spoil her like crazy and send her back home!
It is kind of sad to know I wont have another little bundle to kiss and love on but that is more that I can share with the 2 I have now!