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It's ok Rob...you make me sweaty, too xoxo
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How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
and what is average for you back when you were on the dating scene (or now if you are single lookin to mingle lol).
Chris and I knew each other for a while before we got together. He had a girlfriend when we first met and I was just recently out of a bad relationship. He broke up with his GF, we 'hung out' for about 4 mos and got to be best friends. Ok so here it is...on our first "official" date we DTD! LMAO!! It just built up for me I guess. He likes to tease me that I put out on our first date but in reality we had been together for much longer than that. Normally I would wait a long time, which is why I havent been with many guys....sex is very emotional for me, I have a hard time just "doing it" without there being some kind of commitment involved kwim? Chris was the shortest amount of time I ever waited though lol. I remember being worried that would be it (my mom's voice kept screaming in my head "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?!") but here we are 5 years later with a child together and so much in love. I'm glad it worked out this way, he is my soulmate. So I am curious, how long did you wait to DTD with your SO? |
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Well let's see. Beings the man and I met online... we talked about 10 months.. finally met... the 3rd time of physically being together, we finally did it. He was a virgin and we WERE going to wait until I got fixed, but then he mentioned waiting, because he might want a baby later on, and we then decided to wait until I got on B/c. We weren't even going to do it the 3rd time we were together LOL, he kinda woke up the morning I had to come back home and asked if I really wanted it, which of course I did.. and we went at it. LOL!
So let's see if we were to go with from the first time we talked/met... it'd be a total of a little over a year... going by when we actually made things official, we waiting 4, almost 5 months before we actually did anything. =)... he was new to everything... even kissing LMAO... I had to teach him slowly the ways, giving him his first BJ, him eating out.... hahahaha. I know, I know, it was fun though . But let me tell you... that man could do some shit for his first time.
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It's ok Rob...you make me sweaty, too xoxo
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Get yours, girl!
My ex was a virgin even though he swore he wasnt.
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*closet naughty... peeking through the slats*
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
My DH and I also met online, but we only talked for 10 days before our first date. When we finally did meet in person it was instant chemistry. When our second date came around I was ready and he was too. He is 12 years older so when we did it was the best I'd ever had. So I stuck around to see if it got any better. And I can say almost 3 years, 2 kids, 1 angel, and trying for more that he is totall the man for me. I'm just glad that I knew it from the moment that I laid eyes on him
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
My dh and I dated for a year before we DTD. I was 17 at the time, still in high school and we didnt want something to go wrong if we DTD. He was fine with waiting the year as well. We DTD on his 21st birthday...nice birthday present for him.
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They're real and they're fabulous!
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We DTD (I was a virgin) on like day 2 or 3 and moved in with him a couple days later. We had talked for a year online before this point, though. We were strictly friends until that first day of actually meeting in person. We were dating other people during the time we were talking online. I knew I was moving back to the states and wanted to know some people. I didn't think I would meet my husband that way! Anyway, we talked on the ohone for the first time once I was back in the states and he asked me if I wanted to come over to watch movies. He came and picked me up an hour or so later and we haven't left each others side since then! Damn.. we are celebrating 8 years in a couple of months!!! (9 if you count that year we were friends online)
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
At least a year in all (ok both) cases---
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Cuckoo. Now I'll REALLY stop typing,
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We didn't DTD until our wedding night. And we were both virgins, so no average prior to that.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We had known each other our entire life and had been talking and meeting up as friends for about one month. We kissed on our first date and DTD on our second date
It's been 13 years and still going strong in that department.
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How's about this one! ;-)
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We actually DTD after only about a month of knowing each other! That was SO not like me, I had only slept with one other guy (my highschool boyfriend). However, when I met Dh I just *knew* he was the one.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
With my DH it was like 3 months after dating each other.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We waited 6 months and we were both virgins. I was 15 and he was 16. We are now 32 & 33.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
we met in Dec 97, met in perso in Feb 98, had sex first time, he was a virgin, that March of 98!!
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Oh do I feel bad saying this and please don't view me any different.
I met my dh one night at a bar and he took me home, I stayed 3 days, went to my friends parents house where I was staying grabbed what little I owned and moved in. We haven't been apart since. To my defense I was very lonely. Past record was 3 months. |
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Well, we started dating when I was 15, were on and off, on and off until I was 18. At that point I was pretty sure we were going to move in together soon (which we did, a day or two after I graduated high school) so we dtd then. It was my first time, and it took a looong time. It was NOT the enjoyable, romantic experience I had imagined.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We were both virgins, and our wedding night was our first time
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has a pain in the neck.... literally a PAIN in her neck!!!
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
i have know dh for 13 years we were friends for nearly 2 started (i had a huge crush on him for those 2 years we were friends) kissed christmas day 1995 for the first time and a few times after that (but we weren't "dating") then august 9th early in the am we dtd... first for me first for him... and we started dating august 17th!!!
moved in together memorial weekend of 1997 and married march 31, 1999. that's us in a nutshell! (i am a hoochie. lol.) |
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
I'm a bigger hoochie, LOL!!!
Me and DH met on a blind date on a Wednesday night (we had talked twice before that). Friday night we met up at a sports bar, went home that night! We spent the weekend together. That was right after Halloween, 2003. After that I sort of moved in with him. Then we got married January 22, 2005.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
About a week after I met him!
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People who are organized are just to lazy to look for things
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
I waited exactly 3 months with my dh, before him there were 5 others and well all of them we DTD very soon like 2-3 weeks into the relationship so when I got with DH I wanted to take it slow (yeah like 3 months is slow LOL) so dh had to wait the longest and even though he claims he was not a virgin I think he was.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
DH & I waited about 2 months or so... I was living with my mom cause I was a single mom so my mom watched my DD while I went across the st. to a friends party. Well I dont really remember talking to him that night but a few weeks later I was over there talking to my friends & her man & DH decided to go out. well they started arguing well I rode with my DH. We hit it off...we always together from that night on. In a way that was our first date b/c even unsaid he paid for everything & treated me right.
I felt something telling me he was "the one" well he told me a few weeks later that he really liked me & had that same feeling. we started dating..DTD a few days later...& now we are married since jan 07...although only been around each other not that long...dated 3 months he deployed 8...so that was our first yr of being together...& all last yr. he was home we got married this past Jan & now he is deployed again...Crazy But its our life.... Sorry to High jack the thread....LOL |
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Well here is mine, I was met Nick in person and we DTD that evening. Haha!!
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Back and better than ever, LOL
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
I met Doug on a blind date, talked to him pretty much around the clock on the phone for the next week, seduced him the next weekend and moved in with him a week later. It's been ten years and two more kids and he's still my best friend.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
In my defense, I was rebounding after breaking up with a guy I just had a miscarriage with and a very long and awful relationship that should have ended a long time ago, met dh on a thursday night, went out friday, saturday, and had sex on Sunday
He moved in a week later!
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
oh God... I think 3 days? lol....
We already knew eachother pretty well... we just hadn't really - shared our feelings. It was in college - alcohol was involved... lol. I don't regret a thing. Oh, and what's worse... he was a virgin!!! |
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
11 months after we started dating we DTD then 3 years after we started dating we got married so I guess we did alright for ourselves on the duty thing.
BTW he was my first so that was the longest I lasted with a man and the shortest because of the fact that he was my first.
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Gerald & I waited 4 months to DTD. We met in June 1995 at the age of 21. Engaged in June 1996. Married in June 2002. He's my best friend!
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
Ummm....I had been talking to SO for...let's see....I get all tingly thinking about him
We started talking in the fall of '05 as friends (I was still married but we were heading to divorce) and I thought he was cute but I wasn't like "sweating" him. We talked all the way through January of 06 when he broke up with his skanky girlfriend and I told him he was too good for her. We went out (hubby and I were separated) but got drunk, had a good time but didn't do anything except kiss. That was February 3rd. February 8th of '06 we rocked each other's worlds and been doing so ever since lol
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
We had sex the first night we were together, lol!
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Re: How long did you wait to DTD with your SO/DH/DF?
lol awesome!!! I've done that before. It is what it is. I'm not ashamed. It was hella good!
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